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Should I say, “Yes, I do”? and the 25 Red Flags to watch out for.
This is one of the most anticipated question for those in relationships in many communities. The easy answer to the question “Should I...
Matthew Izekor
Feb 25, 20228 min read
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Why are Women Silent about pain?
Pain is often associated with disappointments and failures. When pain is left unattended, it gets worse and in almost all situations,...
Matthew Izekor
Feb 19, 20225 min read
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The painful cost of getting married.
Weddings, and engagements ceremonies are joyful events, but they are very expensive. They are expensive in monetary and in emotional...
Matthew Izekor
Feb 19, 20225 min read
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Why women do not report the abuse they suffer.
Women do not report the abuse they suffer in our communities and homes because of their trauma, the shame and blame melted on them, our...
Matthew Izekor
Feb 2, 20228 min read
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Shame: Why we keep it and feed it.
We have all experienced the feelings of shame to various degrees. Unfortunately, we habour many of these events and they become the very...
Matthew Izekor
Jan 10, 20226 min read
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3 reasons why daughters are sexually abused in homes.
Millions will shiver at the thought of this question but underneath the crevasse in our homes, our daughters, housemaids, and female...
Matthew Izekor
Jan 4, 20227 min read
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Shame : Our internal dialogue of pain.
You entered the new year with optimism and a renewed drive to make the needed changes, to excel, and achieve your life goals. That’s...
Matthew Izekor
Jan 4, 20225 min read
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What Makes a Woman Unique?
A close friend once said to me “Why don’t we ever learn the extraordinary makeup of women from nature”. Many will argue that being a...
Matthew Izekor
Dec 15, 20218 min read
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3 major errors about God and women.
God is a person that binds every camp of belief system (atheism, agnosticism, monotheism, animism, totemism polytheism) with passion....
Matthew Izekor
Nov 11, 20217 min read
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How to model your daughter beyond yourself.
Most parents feel ill-equipped to raise and mentor their daughters. There is the common saying “no child is born with a user manual for...
Matthew Izekor
Nov 9, 20217 min read
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I can't have children. Why is this a woman's dilemma?
Childlessness remains an uncomfortable topic and in many communities and institutions (cultural and religious) it is sometimes seen as an...
Matthew Izekor
Nov 8, 20216 min read
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Woman, do you love yourself?
Many will answer “Yes, I love myself” but upon deep reflection, will come up with a slightly different answer. A watered-down version. A...
Matthew Izekor
Oct 19, 20217 min read
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Issues that affect a daughter's relationship with her dad.
I was ill-equipped to address many of the issues I had to deal with as a father. I had read books and listened to programmes about...
Matthew Izekor
Oct 19, 20215 min read
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The stories we want buried about our daughters.
We have hidden and buried our collective misdeeds to our daughters for a long time. We excuse our failures and complacency by suggesting...
Matthew Izekor
Oct 12, 20217 min read
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What a woman brings into a relationship. (For men only).
There is a common trend among many of my fellow men to ask the question “what does she bring to the relationship? This question is always...
Matthew Izekor
Oct 4, 20217 min read
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My letters on LinkedIn 2021
2021 was a unique year for the nations of the world. It had despair, and hope seemed but a glimmer. It was during this period I penned...
Matthew Izekor
Oct 4, 20213 min read
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What love for a woman means.
Love is a word constantly spoken as a solution to the ills that plague our communities. We hear phrases like: "She is in love", "You...
Matthew Izekor
Sep 19, 20216 min read
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How divorce silences a woman.
Divorce can have a very devastating effect on the couples involved. The effects are mostly quadrupled on the women in most communities....
Matthew Izekor
Sep 12, 20215 min read
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2 things we all question about Women.
My mentor once said, "Nothing is more lifeless than the opinion of my enemies". I often reflect and apply those words when I hear some...
Matthew Izekor
Sep 11, 20216 min read
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How to deal with hearing your teenage daughter say "I am Pregnant".
Hearing any teenage daughter say "I am pregnant" can be a nightmare situation for any parent or guardian. The shock, disbelief, shame,...
Matthew Izekor
Aug 25, 20216 min read
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